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Talking to Teenagers About Their Mental Health

Openings that work, and the ones that reliably close a conversation.

Dr. Henry Ukpeh

Dr. Henry Ukpeh

Pediatrician · Child Health Advocate

Published June 18, 2026 · Last medically reviewed August 1, 2026 · 8 min read

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Teenagers rarely answer direct questions about feelings. They answer indirect ones, sideways, usually in a car.

Sit beside, not opposite

Conversations that happen shoulder to shoulder - driving, walking, washing up - carry far less pressure than conversations across a table. Use them.

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