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Screens Without a War at Home

A workable family position, arrived at without shouting.

Dr. Henry Ukpeh

Dr. Henry Ukpeh

Pediatrician · Child Health Advocate

Published July 19, 2026 · 7 min read

A desk with a notebook, glasses and coffee

Most screen conflicts are not about screens. They are about transitions, and transitions can be designed.

Decide the shape, then hold it

Agree where devices live, when they are off, and what replaces them. Write it down. A rule that lives on paper is argued with far less than a rule that lives in a parent's mood.

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